Using a HELOC in a divorce

A HELOC can pay a departing spouse their share and let you keep the house and its low mortgage rate.

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Order of operations

1. Get the settlement terms in writing; the lender will want the decree or agreement.
2. Coordinate title: the departing spouse usually signs off at or after closing as the decree directs.
3. Qualify on your income alone. Alimony or child support you receive usually counts once it's documented and expected to continue.

When a cash-out refinance fits better

If the existing mortgage is in both names, a refinance removes the departing spouse from it; a HELOC doesn't. Compare both before signing a settlement deadline.

How a buyout is figured

Home value $800,000, mortgage $400,000: equity is $400,000. If the settlement splits it equally, the spouse keeping the home owes the other $200,000. Sale costs aren't being paid, so some settlements subtract a notional amount for them, which can reduce the buyout. The spouse keeping the home needs to qualify for the existing mortgage plus the new financing alone.

Title versus the loan

Removing a spouse from the title (with a deed, often an interspousal transfer deed in California) doesn't remove them from the mortgage. The departing spouse stays liable on the existing mortgage unless it's refinanced or the lender releases them, which is rare. That's why many settlements require the spouse keeping the house to refinance within a set period.

Your financing options compared

• HELOC or home equity loan for the buyout: keeps a low first-mortgage rate, but the departing spouse may remain on the first mortgage.
• Cash-out refinance: pays off the old mortgage and the buyout together, removes the departing spouse from the debt, but resets the rate.
• Fannie Mae's equity buyout rule: some divorce buyouts can be done as a limited cash-out refinance with better pricing than a standard cash-out. Ask your loan officer whether it applies.

Using support as income

Alimony or child support you receive can count as income once it's ordered and you have a history of receiving it (often three to six months), and it's set to continue for at least three more years. Support you pay counts as a debt.

Questions people ask

Can we open a HELOC before the divorce is final?

Only with both owners' signatures and agreement on how the money is used. Opening a HELOC mid-divorce without a signed settlement is risky for both spouses, so get the settlement terms in writing first.

Is a quitclaim deed enough to remove a spouse in a divorce?

No. A quitclaim deed moves title but doesn't remove the departing spouse from an existing mortgage. Coordinate deeds and loans with your attorney and the lender, and don't sign a quitclaim before the refinance or buyout is funded.

Mistakes to avoid

• Signing a quitclaim deed before the refinance or buyout is funded.
• Drawing on a joint HELOC during the divorce without the other spouse's agreement.
• Agreeing to a buyout amount without confirming you can qualify alone.
• Forgetting to freeze or close a joint line, which either spouse may be able to draw.

Divorce checklist

• Get a current appraisal or broker opinion.
• Confirm you can qualify alone.
• Coordinate with both attorneys on timing.
• Close or freeze joint lines.

Also asked

Can we open a HELOC together to fund the divorce settlement?

Some couples open a joint HELOC to fund a divorce settlement, then one spouse refinances it later, but it's risky: both remain liable and either could draw on the line. Have your attorneys put in writing who pays it and when it must be closed or refinanced.

Who pays a joint HELOC during the divorce?

Both borrowers remain responsible to the lender until it's refinanced or paid off, whatever the divorce agreement says.

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